Horrible news

Hi guys, girls and Admin,

I got some quite bad private news.
Last week tuesday they found cancer in my mom's body, in her esophageus (I tend to call it mouth-to-stomach tube).
Yesterday they stated it spread out to her lymph gland and liver. This means she is in a very unhealthy situation.

I'm quite sad now because chances are big that I wont have a mother anymore within 2 years.

Just to keep you updated I might react a bit sad, aggressive or whatever because of this but I hope you understand.

Im sorry man, this is so sad

I'm so so sorry , Kevin!

Ik leef met je mee! (I don't know how to say in English)

Thanks, guess its something like: I feel sorry for / with you. not sure tho.

Im very sorry, too, but we cant change the orld yet.
if it helps: I had a classmember a few years ago and she also had cancer for over one year. ant the end she has been healed. The chances are even better for adults.

If only it was true It's already proper shit if the lymph gland has cancer. Basically just for that (and as addition to her liver), hope is totally gone. >.<

Oh i'm so so sorry mate!
That's really horrible...

But there's always hope...

As I said in other topic(s), they give her a max of 2 years varying from 2 months.
Conditions are worsening so it "could" be that she isn't alive if I come home today.
That is ofcourse a rough and unlikely thing, but it is possible.

Yeah that's true, but that's only an approximation...
I do know a guy which got the message that he's got 2 more years to live...ond that was 10 years ago and he's still 'ok'.

Yeah but my mum got the message she has 2 months to live, but she might reach 2 years suffering. And Lymph gland cancer is horrible for the ability to spread iit out.

Best of luck to your mother, i hope she gets well.

Update starting from Sat 17-07:

Saturday she had to go to the hospital for an emergency.

She has the tumor in her throat which makes the hole smaller to eat/drink through.

That little hole got blocked by something she ate the day before and closed off her throat, this way she couldn't eat or drink..

She had to go to the hospital because she started dehydrating because she couldn't drink.

She is in the hospital now to get fluid in via (Infuse?). She isn't feeling very well cause taking medication isn't really working well.

And I am quite worried because this seems to be one of the possible things that could happen before "The End".. So I might not be as active as I was.

understandable mate,

Best of luck to your mom, you and the entire family to get through this.